marți, 3 noiembrie 2009

JCF

That this is the miracle of love: belive,hope in impossible and sometimes to meet him ...
Everyday life, lived together is done and many practical details that overlap and repeat .....
Not to make the other pay too dearly for the love you give meaning find and cultivate affinities ... means to share a territory of space and time ... Living together means you wake up next to that person...:"what gestures, which mimics what words to speak? Oh ... how important are the first words on awakening .. as an impetus to the day begins .. "
To live with someone means to welcome him home ...welcoming means abandonment, opening, an invitation to life ... what words, what attitude to encounter ?
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Looks, smiles and gestures uninvented still more telling than words ... nonverbal communication must be important, essential, always renewed in a couple ...
Our eyes are the preferred means of communication ... what they say or not say can also be the source of interpretations more or less wrong ... Body language says a lot: flushing, sweating, tremors ... breathing and heart that beats strong at certain times, while the other talks or speak ... Consolation...consolations means you pass on your body through your whole body unspoken sorrow, deterrent hidden fears moral culpabilizate pleasures, desires glimpse and killed in the bud ...
Smiles ... your smile is there sunshine that turns the universe? That milestone marking the understanding, our complicity ...? To get to express emotions by means of vibrations, the rhythms of our speech, our gestures ... to put our energy into motion to give the intensity of this ... to find in daily taste of love-that feeling of warmth , of total relaxation, energy intensity, mild acuity, the density of the moment, together with all tenderness that feels ... however give us the feeling that there are deep, powerful and different, that we are unique...

Un comentariu:

JCF spunea...

Living together means adopting a new life as if it belongs to you. Resignation. Resign to think fo ME and start to think about US. To adopt ur lover's issues as yours. To finally realize, Gabs, that your problems are now my problems. You religion is my religion, your friends are mine, your enemies are mine too. Living together.... I dream on how it would be like every day. And I love it!!!!!!